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Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Happy Birthday Aleshanee

On Thursday, July 12th Aleshanee turned 7.  Here she shows off her silly crazy side which she does often for pictures.


Here I was trying to get the girls to take a nice picture together but they did funny faces instead.


I can't believe how fast she is growing and what a big girl she is.  


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Saturday, December 17, 2011

Twenty Six Years Ago Today...


(please be patient with me, this post is all over the place.  It took me over 6 hours to write it and it is now after 4am, I gotta pee and my hormones are out of whack!  xoxo)


I gave birth to a daughter, and named her Ashley.




If you remember the post titled "Thoughts on Motherhood", you may recall me talking about being a mother of a drama queen, a movie star, and a bride.  Well, Ashley is the one I was talking about.








She has always loved to perform and she has a natural talent that draws people to her.  Dancing, performing, acting, and directing has been a part of her life since she was little.

You would say, okay, that takes care of the "drama" queen part.  And she's married, so that takes care of the "bride" part.

Well... 

Have you heard of Tyler Perry?
What about the movie, Tyler Perry's: Madea's Big Happy Family.

If you have not seen it yet - it is HILARIOUS!!!  It's a must see as is ALL of Tyler Perry's creations.

DVD: Movie -Madea's Big Happy Family

http://www.madeasbighappyfamilymovie.com/index.html


Ashley was a featured extra in the movie.  Meaning that she was asked to go down, was not only chosen out of many and the only one to be picked out of the 15 left standing but she was paid - good.  Not only did they like her immediately but they did not need to change anything about her.  They loved her look, hair and makeup and her wardrobe that she showed up in and had on after a long drive and all day wait.

She was in the same room as Tyler Perry himself.  She is in the scene at the fast food place and she's wearing a bright fuchsia top.

Movie star!!!

Yeah, not literally, but she was in the movie and she's a star.  Her middle name "Hokulani" means Heavenly Star.  Hoku = star, Lani = heavenly. I know, she was born to be a star.  Aww!!  I told her that and she wasn't too impressed.

Yes, I know this has nothing to do with her birthday but we were pretty excited about it.  So much so that when we went to preview the movie with her and a group of friends, my other daughter, Saphire and I had her autograph our tickets and our bodies.  I know, crazy right?  But that's just the way we are.

She's been in a couple of other things too recently but I can't recall what the names were.  I know, bad mommy right?

Ashley loves to be in the arena of performing arts and that is her calling and where her passion lies.  Her strong, bubbly personality fits so well in this area.

If you were to meet her, you would LOVE her.  She is fun, energetic, full of life, passionate, expressive, emotional, sensitive, BOLD, and ALWAYS the life of any party.

Know what?  We are total opposites.  I admire her that she will go after what she wants, not care what people think, put her whole heart and soul into something and will push through no matter what.

We have had our share of challenges when she was growing up.  Especially with me being a single mom and she being the oldest of 3 when she was little.  Times got so challenging that at one point she went to live with her paternal grandmother.  Things got worse and we grew apart for a long time.

The best thing that has happened to her?  Her husband Josh.





Two total opposites that just fit.  Ashley got married when she was 18 years old.  Her marriage to Josh has been one of inspiration.  They blend so well together and work together.

Right now they are in their second year of being a part of the drama department for their church.  Ashley is going on her second year of directing their major holiday productions.  The current one "All Scrogged Up".

Anyway, This is getting long and I have no idea where I'm going with this.  It is now 3:40am and I've been working on this for 6 hours, yikes!

Ok, enough with the intro... here we go....  =)








Ashley, I remember the day you were born like it was yesterday.  I know I have told you this before but I am telling you again... I was 15 years old when I got pregnant with you and barely 16 years old when I gave birth to you.  Looking back, I truly believe that God used you to save me.  If it was not for you coming into my life, I had everything available to me to go down the road of destruction spiraling out of control.  If I did not have you to care for and love, I would most likely have taken that road.





Although your life was not easy with me as your mom and we have had many huge challenges between us, I love you so much.  I am grateful for you.  Not only that  you were entrusted to me by God but because of the person you are.  You challenge me and push till you know you can't push anymore.  I know I can trust you to be that powerful force in my life that at times I need but may not want.  I love that you don't care what people think and will do the right thing no matter what.  You will protect those you love in any way, shape, or form and ask questions later.





I hope you know how much I love you.  I know we don't get to spend much time together or have the ideal mother-daughter relationship.  I mean, who forgets their daughter is theirs even for a split moment?  =)  It's not because you are not on my heart as a daughter but because I was such a young mom, you have become my friend and the relationship we have is much more than just mother-daughter.





I love you so much Ashley, more than you could ever imagine and more than you will ever know in your lifetime.  There are no words to express and no way of showing it.

I wish for you the best birthday!

Wait, there's more...  scroll down for a special message...





A special birthday message from Josh...

What can I say about Ashley White?.... Well, she is the love of my life! In the beginning we had many ups and downs, but over time with the help of God, we have had a tremendous turn around. If I had to have one word to describe Ashley, it would be "passionate." No matter what or who she cares about it, she does so with extreme passion. A lot of people don't understand this about her. For some people, this is hard to be around. For others, it's a delight. Either way, it is who she is. She is not faking. That is who she is. Our relationship suffered early on because we are so different. But, at the same time, that is why God brought us together. Because in a relationship, both parties must bring the other to a completely different level. She brings me up to a completely new level of caring for others. We are opposites because that is exactly what each of us need. I love her for that. And I love her for her! Happy Birthday honey!

We all love you Ashley!!  Have a wonderful day!!



Love,
Mommy



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Saturday, October 1, 2011

Sandbox and face paint party fun




We celebrated one of my nephew's birthdays this week.  Party time was filled with sandbox play, which just so happened to be Hayden's first time.  She kept picking up the sand and throwing it above her head then would look around at what was falling into her hair.  It was the funniest thing.  As you can see in the picture above, she was a filthy mess with dirty sand all over her face, in her hair, and I didn't find out till today that her shoes were filled with sand.


The girls enjoyed their time with their cousins and other family and friends.  My mom did face painting for the entire duration of the party.  My girls are usually the last ones to get their faces painted at these parties.  Once, my mom did their paintings in the parking lot while standing outside her car when we were ready to go home.

One thing though, that dark pink paint... does not wash off.  I was sure Aleshanee was going to school with red splotches on her forehead the next day.  Lucky I was able to scrub the rest of it off before the bus picked her up.

It was nice to see the girls being able to go off and play more freely now that they are getting older.  They are growing up so fast and one of the things I love to do is watch the way they respond to their surroundings.  Their expressions on their faces, the things they say, the funny things they do, I love all of it.  I could sit and watch them all day.

I look forward to more days like this.



Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Birthday Beauty



This is my daughter Saphire.

She is the youngest of my first bunch of kids.

She is a single mother of her 2 year old daughter and does an incredible job raising her.

She has a new love in her life and he is amazing with both her and her daughter.

She is 22 years old today.

Happy Birthday Saphire!!!!


My oldest daughter made her wear this crown and sash and I think she looks like a true beauty queen so I had to share this shot with the world.


All my heart,
Salena



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Friday, September 16, 2011

Do A Little Dance and a Sing-a-long



My day started like this



While waiting for the school bus, I asked Aleshanee if I could take her picture.  This is what she gave me.  She is full of spunk and crazy antics most of the time.




My night ended like this



Celebrating my dad’s 54th Birthday.  My mom made Japanese food, we had shrimp tempura, vegetable tempura, shrimp, sushi, poke (raw fish), mochi, chicken, fish, cold somen salad, and ended with vanilla cake and ice cream.  We all sang happy birthday and were so full when we headed home.


All my heart,
Salena